Who installs the marker?
Markers Direct does not provide installation services, as the installation of the marker is normally performed by the cemetery
personnel. If this is a smaller or more rural cemetery, there many not be an
office or a grounds crew on site. In these cases, the installation may be
contracted out to a third party, such as a local monument company. Either the
cemetery office (if there is one) or a local funeral home would be able to tell
you who performs the installations for the cemetery, and how much they will
charge you. Whether the installation is performed by the cemetery or an outside
party, any installation fees and any required documents must be signed locally
before the delivery of the marker.
Do I have to pay any fees at the cemetery?
Most cemeteries will charge you to install the marker (whether you purchase
it from them or an outside source). The average is about $200., but this fee varies significantly in different parts of the
country. The cemetery will usually require that the fee be paid (and any
required documents be signed, such as a setting authorization), before they will
accept the marker. In fact, many cemeteries will send a marker back if the fees
are not on file, requiring redelivery at a later date. To avoid any additional
shipping fees, make sure you have taken care of the cemetery in advance of the
marker's completion.
How long does it take to make the marker?
Once the design layout has been approved, most markers are completed
within four to six weeks. If the marker includes a black and white photo etching, the
production time is about six weeks. For color photo tiles, plan on about eight weeks.
Completed markers are usually shipped on the 1st and 15th of each month.
Can the markers on this website be used as upright
monuments?
All of our markers are flat grave markers, and are flush with the ground when
installed. They are not upright monuments.
How is the marker shipped, and how
long does it take?
Our standard sized markers (24" x 12") are usually
shipped via UPS ground, which take up to 7 business days. Larger markers
are shipped via common carrier, and take about the same time frame for delivery.
Can the marker be shipped to my
residence instead of to the cemetery?
We will gladly ship markers 24" x 12" or smaller to a residence.
Please be aware that the marker could weigh up to 150 pounds (depending on size), so
please make sure that you are capable of handling the marker once it arrives.
If the marker is larger than 24" x 12", is should be
shipped directly to the cemetery, or to a business address, where personnel
would be available to physically offload the marker from the truck (there may
not be a ramp of lift gate).
Will the cemetery accept a marker from an
outside source?
You have the right to purchase a marker from any source that you choose. Our
markers are made by the same manufacturers that supply cemeteries
and funeral homes across the country. The cemetery may tell you that they will
only accept a marker if it complies with certain quality standards or material
specifications. Please know that our markers comply with the industry standards
subscribe to by all major cemeteries throughout the country. If a cemetery claims
they have a regulation that requires you to purchase
the marker only from them, have them show it to you in writing in their by-laws.
Can I select any size I want for the marker?
Usually not. Most cemeteries have specific size requirements for markers.
Their by-laws will often specify a particular size for a single marker, another
for double markers, etc. The cemetery will usually refuse the delivery of a
marker if it does not conform to their specifications. Your cemetery would be
able to tell you over the phone what their requirements are.
If the cemetery is smaller, privately owned, or located in a more rural area,
they may not have any regulations at all. If you have seen all sizes, shapes and
styles of markers throughout the cemetery, this may be the case. Since smaller
cemeteries may not have an office on the premises, you would need to contact a
caretaker or a local funeral home to find out what regulations, if any, exist.
Why are there two different thicknesses of
stone (3" and 4")?
Over time, cemeteries have settled on certain standards for
their markers. In California and some parts of the west coast, 3" thick stones were adopted
as the standard. In the rest of the country, 4" thick stones
are more common. Every cemetery is unique, and the requirements at your local
cemetery may be different. It is important that you contact your cemetery and
select the correct stone thickness, as otherwise the cemetery may refuse to
accept the marker.
Who is responsible if the marker gets
damaged by the cemetery equipment?
Many cemeteries will tell you that they are not responsible for damage to a
marker if you purchased it from someone other than the cemetery. This is a
commonly used scare tactic used to discourage people from purchasing a marker
elsewhere. The reality is that if the cemetery has an endowment care fund
(almost all do), the fund is there to provide general upkeep and maintenance of
the cemetery, including repairing markers damaged by their equipment. Since
every cemetery is different, the only way that you can be certain of their
policies is to obtain and read a copy of the cemetery's by-laws.
How is a second name and date added to a marker
later on?
The additional date inscription will be added by a local monument company,
that will perform the engraving on site with portable equipment. The cemetery or
a local funeral home would be able to refer you to whoever provides this service
in your area. Costs vary geographically, with $75. to $100. being common for the
additional of a last date. Adding additional information (such as a second name
or other inscription) will cost more.
How do I keep the marker clean?
Windex or warm soapy water makes a good short-term cleaner for dirt, and it
will not harm the lithochrome sealer (the white pigment in the engraved areas).
The most common cause of build-up on the marker surface is calcification that
comes from irrigation water. This is indicated by a gray, chalky residue, that
is most prominent when the marker is dry. For long-term care, we use pumice
stone to clean the markers. Pumice is sold in small blocks at stores that sell
barbecues and barbecue supplies. They are often marketed as "grill stones", and
are used to clean the dried, baked on residues on grilling surfaces. Scraping
the marker with the pumice stone will rub away any calcification deposits, and
leave the granite smooth and clean. Although it will not scratch the granite
surface, it is a good idea to use the stone only to the extent needed to
eliminate the calcification. (Pumice should not be used on color photo images,
and should be used sparingly on black and white photo etchings). Looking at the
other markers around the cemetery, you should be able to get an idea of how hard
the water is, and thus how often you should anticipate cleaning it.
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The above information has been generalized to apply to the majority of
situations, and may not be applicable to your specific situation. No
liability is assumed on our part for the use of this information.
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